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LockCool beans! I recently got a nifty new product to review from Schlage Locks. It just so happens I really needed this product because I am not big on locking doors. I usually have a 40 pound kid in one arm and and other take along items in the other so who has time. Also, if your keys get stolen…and I have uhm…lost a few sets in my time…then you don’t have to worry because these key pads are digital. No key, just a code.


They are super nice looking too so I didn’t have to worry about an ugly lock. There are several nice shades like bronze, pewter, and chrome. AND they are really easy to install. No keys to hide, lose, carry or forget, ready to use right out of the box - 9 volt battery included, allows you to add, change or delete user codes in seconds, and can be installed with just a screwdriver in less than 30 minutes. They come with keys just in case too. I like the fact that my kids won’t need to carry keys around that they can lose either they just need a code. Once you input the code you hear a click and you can open the door. Easy!


In addition to the exterior lock/deadbolt they have interior locks that can go on basement doors, garage doors, office doors, etc. I would love to have one for the basement door.


At $130 these locks are up there in price but I think they are well worth it. We now have one for both exterior doors and are thinking of adding interior ones as well.

The Yummy Mummy Manifesto

I admit I often wonder about moms who like to refer to themselves as Yummy Mummies or heaven forbid,Yummy Mummy Manifesto MILFs (if you don’t know…I ain’t tellin). As a wife and mom of three I can think of sooooo may other important things to be…like a good role model, a good person, and educated person, etc. While it may not be high on my list of priorities to look like some hot mama I do appreciate many aspects of The Yummy Mummy Manifesto. It IS important to feel youthful and good about yourself so that you can be a refreshing, playful parent and one who doesn’t lose her identity after she becomes a mom.


This book guides moms through maternity and motherhood with style, passion, and a healthy sense of self. It encourages moms to look at motherhood as an adventure…an art…not a skill.


Some of my favorite chapters included:



  • Seven Yummy Self Image Secrets
  • Maternal Chic
  • Boudoir Secrets for Pregnant and Plus Size Mamas
  • Getting through the first six weeks after a new baby.
  • Eco Mama: Walk tall and leave a tiny carbon footprint
  • Bad Days: Mantras of the survivalist mother
  • Crafts
  • 20 Selfish Little Pleasures



The book was funny and refreshing and perhaps just what a stressed out, down in the self image dumps, mama needs. You probably aren’t going to have the beauty and confidence of Angelina Jolie but you can be improve what you’ve got and make the most of and feel GOOD about it. And kids need to see a mom who feels good about herself!


Twilight Series

Edward and BellaI LOVE to read but I don’t read fiction all that much anymore. When I was younger I used to devour fiction novels but now I prefer non-fiction. Recently though I was reading a blog that had some info on Alex O’Loughlin and in the blogroll I kept seeing links to web sites about Edward and Bella. Well who in the heck are Edward and Bella?!

I did some clicking and found that Edward and Bella are fictional characters in 3 NY Times best selling books by Stephanie Meyer and the main characters in an awesome movie coming out around Christmas. When I found out that these books were actually vampire romances…I had to read them. I am a BIG sucker for vampires…no pun intended. ;)

I headed out to Borders within minutes and bought all 3 books. The first is Twilight. WARNING!!! If you don’t want to know what happens in these books WITH DETAIL…DO NOT READ!!!!!

In Twilight we meet Bella who has just moved to the Olympic Peninsula of Washington state from sunny Arizona. She is moving in with her father, whom she does not know all that well. Her parents split up when she was young and her mother never could get used to the small Washington town of Forks that sees only a few days if sunshine a year and it rains almost constantly. But Bella’s mom wants to travel with her new minor league baseball player boyfriend so Bella decides to relocate to her father’s home.

Bella is anxious about fitting into a small town highschool and she is something of a curiosity, although what peaks her interest is 5 unusual and reclusive students. They are quite simply the 5 most gorgeous people she has ever seen. They also have an unusual story…they are all the adopted teens of the equally gorgeous and young town doctor and his wife. They are Edward, Emmitt, Rosalie, Alice, and Jasper Cullen.

Bella’s first real encounter with one of them places her at adds with the Cullen she is the most intrigued by…the stunning Edward. She sits next to him in Biology class and he is anything but friendly. He grips his desk the entire class as if he could snap it in half at any second and he glares at Bella with hatred in his eyes. After class Bella discovers Edward in the office trying to switch Biology classes and once again she is the victim of his death glares. On one hand Bella would like to think there is no possible reason he could have anything against her, but her instincts tell her she is indeed the reason for Edward’s bizarre behavior.

Edward disappears from school after that for many days until finally he returns and this time he is much more friendly to Bella in Biology class although clearly still tense when around her. Their relationship takes and unexpected twist one morning before school when a fellow student loses control of his van on the icy school parking lot. Bella is directly in the path of the van and about to be crushed between it and her own vehicle. Out of the corner of her eye she sees Edward across the parking lot watching in horror as she is about be killed.

The next thing Bella knows Edward has leaped into the path of the on coming van and he shields Bella with his body and uses a single hand to stop the van in its tracks. Wide-eyed Bella knows immediately that Edward is superhuman. Having demonstrated his abilities and powers to Bella, Edward confides in her that he has been seventeen for almost 100 years. He is a vampire. He and his family have chosen to live peaceably with humans and not feed on them. This is especially hard for Edward since he met Bella though as her scent is more powerful and enticing than any he has ever come across.

So begins their love story as they get to know each other…a vampire and a human, inextricably drawn to each other. Both quickly realize that even with all the obstacles between them they can’t bear to be apart and they start spending every waking moment together. Everything hits the fan though when Bella accompanies the Cullens into the woods to watch them play a game of vampire baseball. Unexpectedly a group of 3 unknown vampires (James, Laurent, and Victoria) traveling through the area find them and ask to play the game. Everything is civil at first until James catches Bella’s scent and realizes that she is human. I fight nearly ensues as Edward protects her but unfortunately this intrigues James, who is a true hunter. Alice, who can see the future, sees that James has set his sites irrevocably on Bella as his next kill.

The Cullen family must now figure out how to protect their new human friend as she is stalked by a ruthless vampire. Edward can’t imagine losing the soul mate he has waited almost a century for. The book has many twists and turns but by the end Bella knows that she wants to spend eternity with Edward and she wants him to turn her into a vampire.

I LOVED this book! I was glued to it from page one.

I then quickly dived into book two called New Moon, which opens with Bella being distraught that she is celebrating her 18th birthday, making her forever more “older” than Edward. Edward however is not willing to turn her into a vampire because he cannot be sure if vampires have souls and he is not willing to take Bella’s if in fact, they are soulless and damned.

The Cullens throw Bella a birthday party innocently enough but when Bella accidentally cuts her finger while opening presents, Edward’s vampire brother, Jasper is overcome with thirst and he tries to attack her. Bella is thrown into a glass table where she is severely cut on the arm. Only Carlisle, the head of the family and a doctor can stand to be in the same room with her while she is bleeding. He quickly stitched her up but the damage has been done. The Cullens realize that a vampire family isn’t safe for the very human and fragile Bella.

The Cullens decide to leave Forks and start over somewhere else. Edward tells Bella he is leaving her for her own protection and they can’t ever be together again. He makes Bella promise that she will never put her life in danger and when Bella insinuates that she might do exactly that to end her misery Edward promises her that if she were to die he would soon follow by provoking a fight with a large vampire clan in Italy.

A large portion of the book from here after follows Bella for months as she sinks into depression. Only after 4-5 months of depression does she attempt to get back to normal, when her father threatens to send her back to her mom, who is now living in Florida. Unwilling to leave Forks, just in case Edward comes back, she does her best to put on a show that she is getting better. She starts visiting one of her oldest friends named Jacob, who lives on an Indian reservation nearby. Jacob is the one who initially told Bella superstitious stories about vampires and werewolves who lived in area.

Bella discovers accidentally that when she engages in some sort of reckless or dangerous behavior he “hears” Edward in her head speaking to her. In an attempt to keep him nearby…even if it is just his voice, Bella starts engaging in risky activities. She buys two motorcycles and convinces Jacob to get them running for her, one he can keep as payment. She also asks Jacob to take her cliff diving. All the while they work on the bikes together they get closer and Jacob really does help her to tackle her depression. She comes to rely on him like someone relies on the sun for warmth. He becomes her very best friend, although she is soon to discover that he is a werewolf and the mortal enemy of the vampire.

The vampire Victoria is back in the area and hunting Bella in vengeance after Edward killed her mate, James. Jacob and his wolf pack become busy hunting for her most days and Bella decides to attempt cliff diving on her own. When Alice, who has still been monitoring Bella from afar, sees a vision of Bella jumping from a cliff she assumes Bella has commit suicide. She tells Rosalie she must go back to Forks to be sure and she boards a plane. While Alice is in flight Edward calls home to check in and Rosalie tells him that Bella is dead.

Edward calls Bella’s home to speak to Bella’s father (Charlie) but Jacob answers the phone and tells him that Charlie is at a funeral (family friend). Edward believes that Bella is dead and he boards a plane for Italy.

When Alice gets to Forks she quickly “sees” what has happened and where Edward is going. She and Bella take off for Italy to try and save Edward’s life.

The book ends with the Cullens realizing that Bella is family and that they can’t leave her. They decide by vote that Bella will be turned into a vampire if she wants to, without Edward’s consent.

Then we move on to book three, Eclipse. In this book the vampire clan and the werewolf pack are still trying to stop Victoria in her hunt for Bella. She has formed a small army and Alice sees they will attack within days.

Bella is torn between her love for Edward and her friendship with Jacob as both are consumed with jealousy. They have to join forces though as Victoria’s army grows large and dangerous and a truce between these mortal enemies is reached. Bella also comes to realize that what she feels for Jacob is more than friendship…she is in love with him too. He is like the sun for her but Edward is an Eclipse and she can never leave him. She and Jacob are heartbroken as Bella makes preparations to marry Edward and be turned into a vampire shortly thereafter.

I can totally see the imagery used. Jacob is the sun…light, relaxing, centering, stable. Edward is the moon, seductive, dangerous, exotic, erotic, and ever changing. How can you not love both?

There is a 4th book coming out in August that is being anxiously awaited. Will Bella and Edward get married? Will he turn her into a vampire as promised? What will happen between Bella and her other love, Jacob? Will Bella be able to handle leaving all her mortal friends and family members? I need some answers!!!

CranEnergy

Mom Central recently sent me some bottles of CranEnergy juice drinks to try. I am not usually an energy drink person but I do like juice and I am generally fond of energy too so I thought I would give them a whirl. They taste pretty good. My favorite was the cranberry/raspberry combo juice. The juices are enhanced with natural energizers like green tea extract and B vitamins. It also has Vitamin C to help boost immunity. I did get a nice energy kick.

My daughter really liked them too. She kept snaking the bottle when I wasn’t looking. The only negative is that they are sweetened with Splenda, of which I am not a fan. I would love to see them make a Stevia sweetened version….that would rock. I guess the idea is that they have only 35 calories per serving so they are much lower in calories than soda or other energy drinks. I don’t drink either of those though so it is not a selling point but overall they taste good and Splenda is better than Aspartame. So if you have a soda or Gatorade addicted person in your life these might be a better alternative for them.

Diaper Cakes

I need a diaper cake for a baby shower. Do I make one? Do I buy one? DO I use disposables or cloth? So many questions and so many options in adorable baby gifts and specifically baby shower gifts. Since I live in a small town if I go to the ONE big store we have then duplicate gifts might be an issue. Guess I need to look online.

I am leaning towards maybe buying one…most moms are still using sposies. I found Lil Baby Cakes online, a place that makes diaper cakes and they are pretty cool looking. I love the 4 tier cake with little frogs and it is for a little girl which is perfect. It looks like you get diapers, a pink blankie, toys, and Burt’s Bees products. I just love Burt’s Bees and they are pretty safe and natural products…great for babies.

If they made that cake with cloth diapers it would rock! They also have cakes in a safari theme, a religious theme, a teddy bear theme, and a princess theme, among others. They also have gifts you can order and personalize. Looks like a great shop!

I am just wondering how shipping a diaper cakes works.

Stealing - Is It Okay If You Need the Money?

I joined an online unschooling group recently and foolishly I did not read the group’s mission statement. It was actually a group of “radical unschoolers”.  I think I have talked about them here before and while I think they have a lot of valuable lessons they can teach about living with compassion and peace, sometimes I think they are a bit off their rockers and I am pretty “out there” myself.

Right after I joined the group a discussion started about an unschooling magazine run by an unschooling family. Apparently the family ran across hard times…financial and possibly an illness. Basically this means they stopped publishing the magazine six months ago with little or no communication to their subscribers. To make matters worse they are still accepting payments for subscriptions today and have been this whole time. So people have been sending money for this magazine for months and getting nothing in return. AND they have been in contact via email with some of the people on this particular group so they can’t exactly say they are not able to get online, otherwise communicate, or refund money.

Some of the unshooling moms on this group were getting pretty angry and felt as though perhaps a talk with the BBB or taking legal action was needed….since they were out money and also since this family was still collecting money under false pretenses. Basically this family is stealing IMO and in the opinions of several others on this group. The family is not answering emails or letters in regards to this situation either.

Well, when legal action was mentioned a nice portion of the unschoolers started belittling the women who were upset by this theft. I kid you not they started telling them to let it go….that the family must have needed the money more than they did and they should be thankful their family is healthy instead of making a big deal out of $30. They told these women that they had no sense of compassion and that a decent person would just consider their money lost as a donation to a worthy cause and get over it. Oh and here was the BEST one…one lady said that the ones upset by the theft were actually given a gift. You see they had been looking to a magazine to fix some deep seated problem in their lives and when their money was stolen they now had a chance to look inward and fix that problem and come out a better person.

Oh wait…no…the most outrageous thing was when another lady compared taking legal action to how some jerk actually called the police on her to “punish” her when she decided to leave her baby in the car while she went into the library to check some books out.

WTH?!?! Now they use radical unschooling (RU) to explain away theft?? What a bunch of BS! Apparently RUs believe that stealing is okay if you need whatever it is you stole more than the person you stole it from. And compassion dictates you let people steal from you as needed.

Ugh….I think I should unsub from this group. ;)

My Beautiful Fairy

fairy girlThis is a my beautiful fairy girl Paige who just turned 4 last month. In celebration we went to Disney Princesses on Ice. It was one awesome show with almost all the Disney princesses being represented, Cinderella (Paige’s favorite), Snow White, Ariel, Jasmin, Belle, Mulan, and Aurora - aka Sleeping Beauty (my favorite). I don’t think she knew who most of the newer ones were, LOL. But beautiful props and clothes, good looking men in tights, dancing, figure skating, and really good seats…it was great. She got two incredibly expensive and not so great quality souvenirs, princess wands. One has already been broken beyond repair…grrr.

But it was a fun day. She came home and immediately  put on this costume and then wore it for about 4 days. I also recorded most of the Disney show with my camcorder so she has been watching her birthday video non stop.

This little beauty brings such joy to my life everyday I am thunderstruck.

Three cute things she said today:

1. (While eating strawberries) Mom these are filled with gooey fresh goodness.

2. Our Spanish speaking girl is now learning Chinese so today when we unexpectedly had to eat at a Chinese restaurant she walked right up to a waitress and said “Ni hao” (hello). The waitresses jaw dropped. She said a few other words too that I didn’t quite understand but the waitress seemed to know, LOL.

3. Mom….changing your mind is a woman’s prerogative. (Thanks Nana!)

She is growing up. :( In 6 months she starts preschool. She insisted she be allowed to go to an actual school and her acceptance letter just came this week. It will be bizarre having her 8 year old brother home (homeschool) and her gone. I asked her this week if she wants to grow up and she said “Yes…but I will always live with you.” Fine by me honey….fine by me.

A Nanny Can Teach Us a Thing or Two

supernannyMy recent post on an episode of Supernanny, the comments that ensued, and some comments on other blogs talking about this episode have got the wheels turning…

I have heard several times recently that the Supernanny, Jo Frost, is not qualified to give parenting advice because she doesn’t have children. I disagree with this….a lot. And here is why…I was a nanny (home daycare) for some 5 years before I started my first secular job and NOTHING trained me better for parenthood than that. Did I feel that because I was not the actual mom that I wasn’t qualified to offer advice to the moms and dads I worked for? Heck no! I offered ooodles of advice and was asked for it constantly. Why? Because parents saw that what I was doing worked and that many times what they were doing was not working.

It was not because I had superior knowledge it was because I had better skills. I was “honing” my parenting skills for 10 plus hours a day with multiple children from different families. These were not my kids so under no circumstances was I going to resort to physical punishments or yelling. I couldn’t let someone else’s child they trusted me with CIO (cry-it-out). I had to get creative to get the desired outcome. I had to be uber patient. Nannies have to deal with the same issues that parents do but without as many options. AND not only that…nannies have someone (the parents) potentially breathing down their neck, watching every move they make. Let me tell you…it gives you some motivation to develop some mad skills. And by golly I loved those kids and they loved me. I had parents visiting me and writing to me for years after I quit because they felt as though I was part of the family.

I don’t think being a nanny turned me into the perfect parent…far from it. But I think those years as a nanny were actually an intensive parenting training course. So that is why I think a Nanny might be in the perfect position to offer parenting advice…despite their childless status. And I think being a nanny is valuable experience for young women.

Baby Einstein

baby first movesI think by now everyone has heard of the popular Baby Einstein series of DVDs for young children. Some swear that it helps to “smarten” of their babies and some groups say they do the opposite.

Well, I had a chance to review one recently and I have to say that I kind of like them. I am big on movies and DVDs in general because they can be reviewed first by parents and kids like to  watch the same stuff over and over I find. These particular videos are supposed to help babies develop playful movement and motor skills.

I thought they would be cartoons like you see on the covers but I was very surprised to see lots of real babies and children in the video. They were crawling, dancing, jumping, clapping, and playing. My youngest was extremely interested in what they were doing and had a big smile plastered on his face the whole time. I could tell he was trying to figure out how he could do the stuff they were doing.

The soundtrack was also really good with classics from Beethoven, Bach, Vivaldi, and Mozart so even I enjoyed it. It was a really cute video and I think young would benefit from watching…just not too much. After we watched I took my son to the indoor play park and we worked on some of those motor skills.

You can be the Baby Einstein Dvds at Amazon!

Community Events

My resolution to support my local community is working out well. Two times this month my son (7 years) and I have visited a local, historic theatre and playhouse. Two weeks ago we saw “Enchanted” a wonderful movie. It is a classic Disney fairytale that collides with modern-day New York City in a story about a fairytale princess who is sent to our world by an evil queen. Soon after her arrival, Princess Giselle begins to change her views on life and love after meeting a handsome lawyer. It was so cute you couldn’t wipe the smile off my face. I would highly recommend it!

Today I took him to a stage performance of The Emperor’s New Clothes. We had a great time yet again and spending some one on one time with my oldest is awesome too. Next week we are planning to see The Sound of Music and several weeks from now we are looking forward to seeing Rumpelstiltskin.

And I am REALLY looking forward to seeing some Operas in the spring with hubby. :)

In Phoenix we had so many opportunities to do things like this but we never did. :( I am happy to see that changing.

The picture below is from the marvelous Palace Theatre. It is gorgeous inside and less than 5 minutes from my house.

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